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As I live out of town on a farm I tend to forget or not be affected by the night time events that occasionally occur in town. Don’t get me wrong, our country town is, on the whole, peaceful and law abiding. But there have been a spate of incidents lately that make me wonder at the psyche of some people. Perhaps it is alcohol and drug induced or boredom or simply high jinks, but all are disturbing in their own way.

Take for example the drag racing. WA State Government TV ads say that these can be stopped with a phone call. But if the phone call is to a main Police centre 150 km away and the receptionist believes it is not important enough to rouse the local policeman – then one is in for a fairly restless night.

One of our ex- residents is doing well in the AFL. So to celebrate his success, his so called mates – instead of taking his example to do something constructive with his life – decided to “celebrate” by going around the town breaking windows at the school canteen, the charity shop and a couple of businesses. This followed an incident after an 18th birthday where others (or some of the same) smashed church windows and Sports Club windows the week before.

It is not as if these people aren’t being assisted in getting employment or live in derelict houses. They don’t even seem to want to hide their “crimes”.  A letter in our local paper states: “Break-ins and attempted break-ins are looked upon as ‘opportunistic crimes’ by our local police. … but… these windows and doors have mesh on them and individuals have been caught  with crowbars attempting to get in….. This is premeditated. Once again though we seem to applaud individuals in our community –“Locals learn shearing skills”…but a few of those individuals published are related to these crimes. My frustration lies with those individuals commiting these offences and constantly flaunting the law.”   And another – referring to the Local shearers story “Take a stroll down the alley way between … and …. Street where the names of some of the participants are “artistically” plastered over resident’s fences”.

So how is the problem to be solved? Is it a more hands-on approach from police – a few bog laps around the town at night to display a presence and a local police number to call if there are problems?  (At least our town has a police presence during the day – not like several towns where our present Government has closed the stations.) Is it a need to name and shame continuous offenders even if they are underage? Would that have an effect when, even now, they boast of their antics and thumb their noses at the police because they remain untouchable. Do we ban alcohol usage as occurs in some of your Northern towns – a great success for the towns involved, but the problem drinkers tend to move elsewhere. Setting up programmes to arrange employment help some, but not all. Or perhaps it is just part of our culture to “play up’. On some levels we all have laughed off the misdemeanors of our youth, and many have failed to guide their children by their own example.

Yet I manage to have two boys that never steal, get a taxi if they drink too much, never steal time from their boss and can be trusted to work on their own with company cars and company equipment. And many others have such children too.

Last week I was having a meal at lunch time in an open air restaurant. At the table next to me was a young couple and a boy of about eight. The boy could not finish the pizza, so his mother asked if they could have a take away box to take it home. When it came, to my surprise she laughingly placed the restaurant china plate in with the pizza in the box and after a while they left.  I happened to be leaving at the same time and told the manager want was happening. He was so short staffed, he said, he could not follow them. Perhaps I should have said something to that mother myself (Excuse was I have just had a op. on my foot and wouldn’t have been able to make a quick exit)  But perhaps here lies the route of our problems. There are too many people who seem to believe that if you can get away with something, then it is OK. It is there in all our dealings – from avoiding paying some taxes, taking an unneeded sickie to smashing windows.  There does not seem to be a lot of rewards for being honest and respecting others.  For me, my conscience would make me take that plate back, even if I had been tempted in the first place, but I am concerned that we are producing a society where a clear conscience is not a criteria for happy living any more.  

I have practiced what I should have said to that mother – “Don’t be surprised when you find your son stealing from your bag or smashing a shop window. You have just taught him that it is cool to steal.”  I wish I had spoken out – but I doubt if it would have made a difference. Perhaps that is why the police don’t go out and about at night – they doubt it would make a difference. Are we all just giving up?

Published: 3 months ago by hobbsbarb.

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  • Sigh

    Hobbsbarb, Take a chill pill! It would seem it cannot be resolved but don’t you just dream of being Dirty Harry occasionally.? And yet, Australia has this amazing self image about goodness, and smiley faces, and helping out ya mates and to a large extent it is complete bull dust. I live in the country and walk a 6 kilometre section of road regularly. The amount of rubbish; bottles, bags, clothes, car seats, batteries, just all sorts of stuff, thrown out of car windows…why couldn’t they take it home? Who cares, there is no one out here and I don’t want it! And the local scenic spots, human excrement in the middle of camping areas, picnic spots….it beggars belief. I believe we could make the legal system simpler by having one law…being un Australian. That means we look after each other, we look out for our mates, we look after our enviroment , and the simple act of throwing rubbish out the window is basically saying to all of Australia, “get stuffed, my needs are more important than yours” and needs to be punished severely. The more we tolerate stealing plates from restaurants, throwing rubbish out the window, having loud parties so the neighbours need to complain, taking shopping trolleys and walking a kilometer home with them and then chucking them in the local creek…these are not people I went to school with or know. Hang on, I need the chill pill!

    Published 3 months ago by shaun

  • Re: A smashing time

    Hi there, in all honesty I’m Speechless and I don’t know where to start, except that I’d like to let you know that I feel much the same way as you do about what’s happening with/to everyone in our Communities Re: Criminal activity, etc.

    I was drawn in here to this post after I read the following writing that I received in a Newsletter from ‘OurPatch’.

    “What is in the psyche of those who have no conscience about committing crimes and no respect for their community? Have we all just given up on doing the right thing? From Barbara.”

    I believe you answered your own question in the same above sentence here! i.e. There is NO Conscience in the Psyche of Most of those people who are Committing these Crimes in Our Communities And Not Only do they have NO Respect for Their/Our Community, they have NO Respect for themselves either!

    I’ve been subject to soo much of these Criminal Behaviours over the past few years now that it would take me forever to write it all out for you, and I’m Not just talking about those people who I don’t know here who are committing such Crimes against me, but Worse, I’m Mainly talking about Family and Friends who I’ve known all or Most of my life anyway,

    I can’t believe it all, I’m deeply shocked and saddened by All of this, and I don’t know if I’ll ever be able to get over it. And I do believe that Most members of our Community have indeed just given up on doing the ‘Right Thing’ whether that be by ‘Turning a Blind Eye’ or Not speaking up/out about these types of behaviours, and so on! I have also noticed it more so since the T/Attacks that happened a few years ago on a date that’s very close by too! And TOO Many people are still affected deeply by it in my opinion. I truly believe it’s changed the world for the worse and how people think/feel about everything now as compared to how they were before.

    Anyway I will end my writing here for now, and thank you for writing in about this because it gives me a chance to air my feelings about everything that’s happened to me and those I care about too.

    If you would like to read about some of what I’ve been through please feel Welcome to visit my Website where I do much of my writings, and other such things. @ http://vsas1.multiply.com

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    Published 2 months ago by vsas

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