Be the initiator – and be in control If you want to have a memorable time, it should go without saying you need to be the one that is proactive in shaping the events according to your plans. Imagine being out with your escort and ending up wasting time on trivial and unimportant decisions that take time away from more enjoyable things. If you are worried about coming across as being pushy, just remember to observe her body language, and also to give her space to weigh up your proposals. The association that she will make with someone who initiates the actions is that of a confident person who knows what they want, and can take charge of the situation when necessarily. So whether it is a formal dinner out in town, or a casual meeting at a night club, your escort will feel comfortable and relaxed, knowing that you have everything under control.
Collect information – listen and learn Don’t just engage in trivial conversation for the sake of keeping up the chatter. Use this opportunity to collect information and find clues to what you can be doing to make time more interesting. Put in suggestive comments, open-ended questions, and then see what the response is. You know that you’ve hit the right mark when the conversation begins to flow more naturally, then you need to start putting them to good use. Perhaps it is something about her favourite drink, memorable places, and special occasions. When you start paying attention to the person sitting next to you, all of a sudden it becomes easier to notice things that normally would slip by.
Dress to impress – and notice the difference As a rule of thumb, it is always better to be overdressed than underdressed. Wearing something a bit fancy might be a way to get attention, but remember that you are also taking attention away from your escort as well! On occasions where etiquette and formality is required, there’s nothing worse than giving the impression that you didn’t take it seriously. It also reflects on how much you take her and yourself seriously, so this is something you don’t want to chance your arm on! There’s no doubt that when you dress well, you also feel much more confidence. Don’t ever make the mistake of thinking that she won’t notice!
Have a bit of fun- It is difficult not to get caught up in the occasion and become tense or nervous. If you can loosen up, relax and take it all in your stride, more often than not it will make up for the not so serious shortcomings. Being able to see the humour in things, or even laugh at yourself means that you are confident and comfortable in your own skin. They say that laughter is infectious, and once you can introduce a light-hearted mood and atmosphere, it will set the tone for the rest of the time. Regardless of whatever happens, if you can end the day by sharing a smile or laughter, that’s what will stay in your memory.