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Posted Jan 9, 2017 12:31pm
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My boyfriend of almost 3 years and I recently got into an argument. It was over something silly and I know I over exaggerated. We've had a few fights like this but he has never ignored me for this long before. I may have said some things that might have hurt his man ego but of late I have been feeling as if he doesn't care for me as much as I care for him. When I try to tell him this he says he's not acting any different and nothing is wrong. I said I was done and we are over through a text in the heat of the moment which I did not mean. I have made that clear and also made clear that if I was to break up with him it wouldn't be when I'm angry through a text message. Now it has been a week and he has not spoken to me. All I have gotten out of him is that he does not want to talk or to see me. I've tried texting and calling but I have now stopped. My car broke down 2 days ago and I asked if he could help me as I had no one else too and he did help me but said he does not want to talk to me. We did end up talking a little and I asked him if he still loves me and he replied with sometimes. I said for him to please break up with me if that's what he is trying to do from this but he won't break up with me either. We both cried and he said he is not happy and he is over the arguing which I am too. This has only happened of late and before this we were perfect for so long. I don't know why he is giving me the silent treatment for this long. I find it really hard to cope as I like to sort things out as soon as possible and I know stonewalling is not a healthy thing to do. He still has me in his display picture on Facebook and hasn't really done anything to show he wants to break up with me but I just don't know what he is thinking or what he wants if he doesn't speak to me. I don't know how long I can do this. I sent him my last text telling him how I feel and apologising and said I will wait for him till he is ready to talk but I can't wait forever. I guess the ball is in his court. I have said all I have wanted to say. I honestly don't know what to do and do believe we can work things out if he would stop ignoring me. I feel as if this is not something to break up over and that we do need to work on our communication skills and this is just a rough patch. Any advice or thoughts would be super helpful

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